Header for Ability Mission

Diane Seeks Grant Money To Resolve Medical Debt And Neglective Environment

by Diane
(Independence, Kansas, USA)

Hello! My name is Diane and I have been married for almost 29 years to the same man. They were happy years but it isn't as happy as it used to be. Allow me to explain:

On Thursday March 25, I awoke and had taken all of my prescription drugs like directed by my doctor. In a few short minutes, I started getting sick and by 3:30 pm that afternoon I began to run a temperature and I was in excruciating pain.

I was taken to the Emergency room here at my local hospital and was admitted overnight. With the recommendation from my doctor I was to consult with a specialist in a bigger city just one hour and half away from me.

On Sunday March 28, of this year we set out on a journey to the city where I had the appointment. My husband's biological father lives in this city and we decided to stay overnight with him.

I was doing okay until about 8 pm and once again, I was taken to the Emergency room of this hospital and later admitted.

On Monday March 29, the specialist came into my room and told me that I was going to have to have Emergency surgery. I had to have my gallbladder removed and a hysterectomy in one operation.

My husband told me that he would go on to love me no matter what happened. He loved me for me, nothing would change and he would take care of me. For the next 12 weeks he did a good a job.

On July 3rd of this year things changed. Things had already started changing. At this time he began to ignore me mentally, emotionally, and physically. This is hurting me more then I can even describe.

Here it is the end of the July and it is worse now. We are constantly fighting. We can no longer get along. I try to explain my feelings to him and it goes in one ear and out the other.

He prefers our two grandchildren to me. He tells them good night, gives them kisses, and I am ignored. If this was just a one-time thing I could overlook it but this is an everyday thing now. I can't take this any longer.

I am asking for help with a grant to get out of this situation. I have over $60,000 in medical bills, which I want to pay off and I want to leave this marriage before it becomes violent.

I want to get out of this marriage and get on with life. I don't care if I live my life alone from now on. I don't care about this. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than to keep going through emotional, mental and physical neglect.

I need help with this. Would you please help me? Please I am begging for your help to get out this marriage and move on.

He has even started to call me names and I don't need this. I don't need this treatment. I don't need to be ignored from having life threatening surgery, it wasn't my fault, and I feel like that I am being punished for it.

Please help me or direct me to where I can find help. Please? Diane.

Click here to post comments

Return to US Kansas.