Disability Grant Money To Help Disabled Woman Escape Abusive Husband
(Toronto, Ontario, Canada)
I am a 52-year-old married woman. While in college I was voted most likely to succeed.
I graduated in nursing and worked but then my husband started the abuse that has taken away my job, esteem, family, virtually everything.
I have tried to get out, but on low fixed income it's not possible. I never stopped fighting to get out for years, but now I'm too tired and I have given up.
My life is really not worth living. My husband is sadistic and cruel and I have even given up on God.
I am unaware how this program works but I could tell and prove how horrific life is being trapped and continually abused physically, emotionally and verbally.
If there were any help available to be had before my life ends without ever living, it would be heaven sent.
I wish to return to school and purchase my first home. Upon completion of schooling I could start repaying the loan.
I am not a weak person. Circumstances led to my demise by my husband's abuse. It began when my sister was murdered. Shortly thereafter it was my father's health condition (gangrene) right foot. I tried for two years to save his leg and eventually his life.
I worked with surgeons by bringing him home after every operation and gave him intensive care nursing.
I consulted with surgeon daily and to my horror they missed a clot in his abdomen and gangrene spread throughout his body causing blood poisoning and a horrific prolonged death.
This was followed eight months later with the loss of my mother. I was not concerned about my health or the financial loss I incurred.
What really put an end to me was when my brothers changed locks on the family home, denying me access to my parent's home.
They then changed the will, removing me completely out of it and throwing my nephew out on the street.
I knew what they were doing was illegal but I had suffered such psychological trauma I was incapacitated and they knew it.
The conditions I presently find myself in are all due to me not looking after myself or my financial state during this horrendous timeDisability Issues
I have physical disabilities that cause severe pain due to the fact that I have to lift heavy objects to maintain my home. Even doing dishes aggravates the condition.
My left hand and arm are numb and using them sets off nerve pain spasms. I manage as I am on painkillers for life, however I am not supposed to be lifting anything heavier than a liter of milk.
I believe my back problem occurred when my drunken husband pushed me down a flight of stairs. I was recently diagnosed with depression from I believe years of sadistic torment.Financial Hardship
I am disabled and living on a side street. I have difficulties walking and taking public transportation.
My husband has a car but he refuses to give me a ride even for groceries, which I very rarely have. He eats at restaurants and spends most of his time in bars, which only increases abuse.
I live on bread and spaghetti from the corner store. My neck and back have severe herniations and need a knee replacement. Due to limitations and very low self-esteem I have an extremely poor quality of life. Income Efforts
I pick up sporting goods at thrift shops and second hand stores and sell to the Play it Again store.
I also look for scrap metal to take to the scrap yard but lack of a car prevents my attempts to make money.
I have a DISABILITY TAX CREDIT but I am usually too upset to focus or follow up with inquiries. Specific Needs
I would like a grant for school, a loan for a first-time homebuyer house as I am disabled on a fixed income.
I would like a loan get out and away from my abusive husband immediately and secure an apartment with furniture for my daughter and myself.
I would like some type of benefit to obtain food and if possible Christmas gifts although I realize that this is not essential.
My most urgent requirement is to sustain my life with the financial ability to move away from the constant abuse immediately, as I can't take much longer.
I fought hard over these years to leave and be able to support myself, to pay for accommodations, food and transportation.
I also have a 20-year-old daughter that I love with all my heart, yet my husband tries to turn her against me. The worst part is that now she is starting to believe him.
For example, he tells her that I'm a lazy good-for-nothing waste of space. These remarks are made when the emotional and physical pain keep me bedridden crying for days.
The physical abuse ended with police involvement, but the psychological and emotional abuse has increased and worsened.Business Idea
I am interested in opening a specialty store with antiques, products from all over the world. I have been trying to follow through on an application from the government but the abuse and upset is continually leaving me isolated in an existence that can only compare to hell.
My desire to attend school is to obtain education in finance and business management. I would also require mathematics and accounting courses, along with any courses required to get a diploma or certificate.
I love nursing and was given a promotion to in-charge nurse the day before my back was injured. I accomplished so many things only to be stripped of them and degraded.
Once I am out of this environment I will succeed in any venture I take on. I still have a huge amount of motivation and if given a chance, I would be an asset to the community and contribute to society.
I would also hire underprivileged citizens with a desire to improve their circumstances. In addition if I were given this miracle I would repay 100 times over for everything. It would change my current existence.