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Grant To Save Veteran Family With Multiple Disabilities From Medical Disaster

by Deborah Powers
(Clarkesville, GA, USA)

My spouse of 39 years is a Vietnam service-connected disabled Veteran. Nick is 59 years old I am 56, a breast cancer and Lupus patient.

We have an adopted son who is 19 and in school. We also have a disabled son, Eric who is 33.

Disability Issues

Nick is a Vietnam veteran and disabled. I have been his caretaker for the last eight years while battling breast cancer.

Nick has had six strokes, open-heart surgery, hearing loss, end stage of COPD, etc.

He has been in intensive care dozens of times. The last was from Christmas day 2012 to January 9 2013.

He is in a hospital bed with oxygen 24/7. His communication skills are weak and hearing is very little.

I was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer in 2006. I had two years of chemo and 35 treatments of radiation.

Lupus is a daily struggle. Nick is the priority.

Eric our son is bipolar. He has to be taken care of.

Financial Hardship

For 38 years we had excellent credit. I have been very conservative and if medication is a factor I get Nick's and I do without.

Our medical bills are staggering. With the oxygen equipment required for Nick, our power bill runs around $500 a month.

Nick is treated at the VA hospital in Decatur, Georgia. This is a 200-mile trip for us. He may have four to six visits per month.

We lost our vehicle four months ago. I'm driving a 2003 Honda with over 200,000 miles on it. I pray we make it to the hospital.

As a caretaker and patient for six years I'm trying to hang on to our home.

Nick is like a child now. He's brain damaged and doesn't understand the situation.

Income Efforts

I don't even know where to start.

Our income comes from SS disability.

Nick had income from MetLife long term insurance. He paid the premium for years at the company he worked for before being disabled.

We received a letter last June that his check would be stopped and that we owe them $32,000.

Seems MetLife went back to 2009 and decided Nick could only receive 60% of his previous income.

Four months before, we purchased a Grand Cherokee as Nick is in pain while riding and can't ride in a small vehicle.

Without this income I had no choice but to drive the vehicle back to the bank. It's very hard. Now we're filing for bankruptcy.

Specific Needs

We're very proud people who have tried to work and can't now.

We want to do the right thing.

It's hard to even list all the needs. I'm not familiar with grants but if any are available, yes.

We need help in paying for all the medical bills and utilities, and just trying to keep our home.

Any help would be appreciated.

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Mar 19, 2013
Thank you
by: Deborah Powers

Thank you for your devotion and consideration of the disabled.

Mar 15, 2013
New sources of help
by: Don from Accessible.org


Have you exhausted all the potential help from the VA?

For an added source of help, go to this page for step by step instructions on how to get started with the federal government website that helps you find benefits you are entitled to:


Few people are aware of this, so you could be quite surprised at what you uncover.

Let us know what you find, okay?

All the best!
Don from Accessible.org

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